People are always in search of a way to explain their emotions to a stranger. When you're interested, you're interested. There is no beating around the bush, making up lies to see that person, or jumping to conclusions of what this person is interested in. A simple letter asking for a simple friendship or asking in general could open doors beyond your imagination. Life is based on risks we take to get to know different people. In a letter of interest to a potential friend or mate, address the small things you like about them. Never ask for a relationship up front - it's a little disturbing if this person is just meeting you or learning more about you. In your letter, talk about that person and how you adore their personality. Make the letter friendly, genuine, and completely sincere.
Hi there,
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You know what? You are really a great person. I can't believe we had a chance to meet at [insert location] in [insert month]. I really hope that we can be friends in the future. Your characteristics are astounding. Your conversation amazes me because you actually like small things like I do. We have a lot in common, actually. Do you remember our first conversation? Your experiences made me wonder what I could do to get to know you better. |
Then we met at [insert location]. I thought it was a joke at first. You told me about what you had been up to and where you were going for [work,school, vacation] and I wanted to know more. Did that feel weird to you? We enjoyed a lot of conversations in such a little time and I'd like to know why you're so crazy! LOL.
Anyway, I know you have stuff to do and I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you today. I'm going to [insert destination] at [insert date and time] and I want you to come. Give me a call if you want to go and let me know what you've been up to.
Take care and thanks for being a good buddy.
Sign your name here
P.S.
I forgot to give you my new number because my phone was broken last week. It's 000-000-0000 and my email is the same - you know I check it every other hour when I'm at work.
